1) I have nothing to say today.... oh wait - that is a lie. :O)
2) Today is gloomy and UGLY and of course another cold one here. I swear I am going to go insane if I have to spend MUCH more time trapped in this house without the sun shining and no warmness. The heater is drying my head out !!! 120 days till spring or whatever ... GAH ! No way.... yeeeeeeeeeea, shut up Tonya !!
3) Oh my goodness, I HAVE to share this !!!! I was ABUSED at Culvers last night. Abused, I tell you ! ( Culvers is a restaurant here) Now if you are familiar with the seating as they are all pretty much set up the same - we sat in the biggest tables - now in the middle there are little tables - bunches of them. Some two chaired, some four. Anyway we had ordered our food, they brought it out and in come this couple with a 2 or 3 year old little girl. I am thinking more like 3. They were NOT little people. Thier clothes did NOT fit. They sat in the smallest chairs. You get what I am saying - right ? Anyway we go about eating our dinners and then the kids get thier custard. RIGHT THEN ..... NO KIDDING AS WE ARE EATING ... this fat lady WHIPS her shirt over her head, exposing herself ... ALL OF HERSELF (NO BRA) .. and trys to "breastfeed" ... if that is what you want to call it. a THREE year old.
~~~~~~ My kids were motified !!! MORTIFIED ! I was speechless. The restaurant errups in laughter and giggling and people being angry. Brittany THREW UP ! This, I kid you not ! and as of right now, this very moment, I am STILL appauled and don't know what to say... ddauuhhh, what are you thinking woman ?!?!?!?! OMG ! MY EYES ! NO LESS - that poor child ! Does she NOT know modesty ? Good LORD ! Oh my !!!
4) Soooooo, okay anyway, after being abused and scar'd - we go to Wal Mart to get a gallon of Milk and a box of cereal. It SIMPLY MUST have been looney night out last night boy, because these people were out in force .. WTH ? We are waiting in line to check out and this pack of people with kids ... are ALLL OVER us. Breathing down my neck, standing basically right on top of me and I am guessing they had no idea WHAT personal space even is .. they are up my ASS. I wanted to go insane. I HATE feeling all closed in and having people all over me, Good lord what the hec.
5) Well, I have no idea WHAT I was going to say next.. I lost that thought when I looked out the window and seen it snowing again just now. TONYA ! I blame you ! GRRRRR !
6) I just don't feel like doing anything today. I feel grouchyness abound, so hmmmm. Just call me Oscar.
7) Ya know .. I looked out the forking crusty window again .. (I must stop that) and wonder WHAT purpose does this crappy SNOW even serve ? Is it there simply just to annoy me ? WHY, oh why can't it realize that I give it permission to be here till Christmas, then it has NO place. It has over stayed it's welcome. GET THE HINT SNOW !!! Go away ! I HATE you !
8) I MUST move. This is rediculous !
9) Well, dang. I can't make it to 10. My brain is dead. I have to write my mom a letter now and with my brain being dead, that may not be an all together good thing !
Hope Ya'll have a great day ! :O)
TAMMIE
...... and I told you to shut up about that - HA HA "cold front" (yeeeea) weather Tonya. You evil, evil woman ! ... my scar'd and abused brain will sit here and wallow in it's frozen misery .. SIGH .. .....
I am ALL about the nursing, I breastfed all of my kids, Anthony up until he was one, He just turned two and I still dont get how people can do it with a 2 year old even!!! I mean, I know it is a bonding time and it is so good for the kids but at THREE?? Holy Hell!!!
ReplyDeleteI feel all weird cuz Anthony is such a boob boy now , I couldnt imagine still nursing him!
He yells at his Daddy " My boooo" LMAO! Ooops!
OK... I did nursing too ... but only lasted 6 months. and hey , if you do it in modestly that is one thing.. you know, but HOLY HELL, she had BOTH booey's out in the air for all to see with a 3 year old on it. ACCCCK !
ReplyDeleteI am scar'd of life. I don;t wanna see others buisness. Use a blanket, go to the bathroom.. I dunno - if ya gotts to do it, just NOT like that !
NOT TO MENTION SHE HAD TO BE ATLEAST 350 POUNDS.
ReplyDelete(in most evil voice again) HA HA HA HA HA!!! Would you like me to tell you what it's like outside my window? With my cold front? roflmfao!!! Seriously though, you've gotta move to some warmer weather.
ReplyDeleteOMG at that woman breastfeeding a 3 yr. old. WTH is wrong with her. I do believe it's okay for woman to breast feed though in public places but yes you can be modest about it and especially if there are children around. There should be a law against just yanking it out for everyone to see. No need in that. Grrrrr!
Hmmmmm, I'm looking ouside Tammie.... lol
Alright Tonya.... You're asking for it. I am going to go to Florida and then you will be sorry. :O(
ReplyDeleteI ain't scared.... come on....least you'll thaw out. lmao!!!
ReplyDeleteHA HA HA ! I would too .. if I had money.
ReplyDeletedang it.
Of course that might not be good tho, because I am certain I wouldn't be back !!! I WOULD be a beach comber ! Gotta luv my ambition !!! Don't cha !!! LOL !!!
I couldn't stand getting all that snow. Yuck!
ReplyDeleteAs for the lady in Culvers....I just don't get some people. Modesty must be a word she is familar with. lol Hope you can get that memory out of your head. lol
EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW on that lady!!!!!
ReplyDeletePeople standing extremely close to me is one of my hugest pet peeves! I mean, it's one thing if my friends or family are standing close to me, but why do some people feel the need to be right on top of other people in a line? Do they think they'll get to the front faster that way?? Ugggh it creeps me out!
Send some of your snow this way! I've been wishing for it!
Ohhh me too me too !!! Gak, I hate it soo much !!!
ReplyDeleteAnd I would totally send you the snow, if I could !!! :O)
My suggestion for people who don't like witnessing breastfeeding, don't watch. Like it or not, God designed a woman's breasts for this purpose.
ReplyDeleteI breastfed both my boys. They were healthy little guys. Not once did someone ask me to cover up and heaven help them if they would have!
I'm really sorry you felt offended, but why should it matter if the woman is overweight or not, or the age of her child? Thin people are better than fat people, babies deserve breast milk more than toddlers?
I applaud this woman's courage to not care what others think, but instead she supplies her child with nutrition, love and comfort. She has to carry the burden of her gluttony sin as people judge her, but God still shines on her for the love she gives her child.
Oh please don't get me wrong ... I breastfed, but as in the bible it says "adorn yourself with modesty" ... there IS a time and place. If she were at home where MY children would not have to see another womans breasts that would be one thing, but out in public is what I have a problem with. I have seen many a woman breastfeed, but IN modesty. I find it to be the same as the nudy channel, because my children (younger) do NOT know the differeance or what it means to breastfeed.
ReplyDeleteShe could have used a blanket or sheet, towel - something, but my children DID NOT need to see her without her shirt on in a public establishment. It was very indecent. Breastfeeding or not people agreed with me because the restuarant was going to all the poilce for exposure. It was that bad. You just can't do it. ..... atleast NOT like that !
I think, if you don't like the snow at all, change your background to a sunny picture!! I get the shivers when I see all that snow, Thank goodness it doesn't snow here!!
ReplyDeleteYea, I'm sick of the snow too!!
ReplyDeleteInteresting experience at Culvers...
Ack! I don't think a 3 year old should still be breast feeding. At the very most, pump the milk and give it to the kid in a sippie cup if you still want them on breast milk. I think women have the right to breast feed their babies in public, but be discreet and have some tact. Geesh! I love culvers we just got one here this summer, and now that I have eaten their burgers I can no longer eat mcdonalds. Culvers is just better, more expensive, but better.
ReplyDeleteWe're in for snow tonight. Lovely, 2-4"...least it's not a foot again. Everything has just melted.
Wow.. Ya'll certainly got an um, eyefull.
ReplyDeleteWell, I think it is always quite possible that some do it in such a way as to draw attention, as in this case of course...ahhaha!! I like to give people the benefit of the doubt, but in some cases that I have experienced for myself, I have found that some do it purposely, to draw attention to themselves...for whatever reason, agenda, that they may have.
We're taking down the Christmas thingies tomorrow. Yaay!
Hope ya'll have a good evening Tammie!!!! :-)
wow, about that woman breastfeeding. Personally, I think it was very rude for her to do it so indiscreetly like that. Nothing wrong with breastfeeding in public, but come on....you can put a towel or something on you, no need to show everything!
ReplyDeletePlus, 3 years old is a bit much. Personally, it just seems, well, more for the mom than the kid by then. They are eating normal food now, and just do not need the milk.
OH my gosh on the woman at Culvers! Oh you poor things! Yikes!!! I can't believe people that are still nursing at that age let alone whipping it out like that! People that do that just drive me nuts!! UGH!!!! If I had to breast feed I would always cover up and you would'nt even know I was doing it! They have these neat cover up things now too. I knew a lady that was still nursing her kid at 5!! UGH!!!! Sorry about Walmart too! OH we are suppose to get 3-5 inches tonight! Joy!!! I am ready for the snow to be done! Ours is all gone and I like that! LOL Plus the gloomy is enough to drive you batty! I hope your evening is great! Hugs to you!!
ReplyDeleteYIKES on the woman at Culvers!! i would be scared too..you poor thing!! She could have at least used a napkin or two to cover up with!LOL
ReplyDeleteIts not too bad here right now. Its getting colder and we're suppose to get some snow tonight..joy! I'm going with you to Florida! When will you be ready??LOL:)
Enjoy your evening Tammie!((HUGS))
Well if someone yanks there shirt off in a restaurant then it might be a little impossible to not see it. That's why they make things to cover up when breast feeding. I don't think anyone here is saying no to breast feeding in public but there are RIGHT and WRONG ways to go about it. She was CLEARLY WRONG!!! There are laws where you can't walk around naked and if my children where sitting there I would have called the police. My children have RIGHTS too & so do I.
ReplyDeleteGod did NOT intend for us to yank our boobs out for everyone to see like that. That's just inconsiderate of that woman and WRONG!!!
Breastfeeding at 3 years old is just ridiculous and I agree that this is more for the MOM than the child at that age. NO CHILD NEEDS TO BE SUCKING HIS MOMS BOOBS AT 3!!! NONE!!!! That is way overboard and I think most doctors would agree.
BTW....KIDS THAT AREN'T BREASTFED CAN BE PERFECTLY JUST AS HEALTHY AS A BABY THAT IS. MINE WERE!!!!
I really don't think God would agree that it's okay to just be indecent at any public establishment in front of minor children. If that's the case then I guess we should just all run around naked in front of children all the time. PLEASEEEEEE!!!!
Sorry Tammie, my opinionated self is at it again. Oops! lol
ReplyDeleteDid you just yank your shirt off in a restaurant and not even try to cover up? If so, then your in the wrong too! I would have said something to you without any problem at all. Because it's RUDE to not try and cover up. RUDE RUDE RUDE & to do it in front of minor children is just SICK & INDECENT!!!!
ReplyDeleteShe could still supply that child with all of those things without being indecent in a public setting in front of children. I think that is what's Tammies whole point was. Not that she was brestfeeding in public but that she didn't even try to cover up a little at all.
ReplyDeleteWHY??? Why would someone do that? There is NO NEED to do that to breastfeed.
I firmly believe there should be laws to a point about this. Not banning from breast feeding in public but to cover up as best you can. They even sell things for this purpose so there is just NO EXCUSE to show your boobs to everyone.
What a strange night. I cannot believe what some people will do without any regard to what others might think. Discretion is a good thing and it sounds like she wasnt trying to show ANY.
ReplyDeleteI dont have a problem with people who do it in public but that was a bit much.
I did this the first year of Kristin's life and I always made sure to go somewhere quiet and even to the car each time I could...that wasnt hard to do at all.
You know I know of a lady who breast feeds her almost 3 year old. Its not nutritionally necessary and she's a scientist so you would think she'd know better. NOT. It really makes you think WHY she is still doing it. She has turned her child into a very needy individual. There's alot more to that story but the fact that she is still doing it is just kind of strange.
If i was you..i say this in the nicest way possible I would find a way to LOVE THE SNOW, EMBRACE IT!!!!!! Its not going anywhere hahaha. SORRY I would take it from you if I could!
Do you guys sled??
okay I must get off the computer..i have lost my camera somewhere in this house............................................
HAPPY NEW YEARS!!