So mass deletions are coming at me again. For this time I have no idea WHY really - - (no explanations given) unless you count my big mouth, however THIS TIME, I am NOT distressed about it ! AT ALL ! I am totally OK with it !
In all actuality, I am glad this was done, before I had the chance to do it myself ... these folks were just NOT good for me and it was beginning to be more and more appearant to me that it was time to separate for all that was best. For me to be the best me, I need to be around people that want to raise me up and be positive, help me in my want to be and to help me be the best me that I can be ... that just was not happening. I would always be worried about what I should or would say ... like I had to walk on eggshells here just to please certain people.. and it just should not be that way ... that is NOT what real friends are about ... I should NOT have to tiptoe about with worry that I might offend just to make others worlds "peachy keen" ... it will just NOT happen, I am not a butt kisser and if I have to kiss butt in order to have "friends" you are NOT meant for me !!!!
Sooo. .....
"To everything there is a season, and a time to purpose under heaven" ..
Preachers sermon this week was EXACTLY about this, like he had spoken directly to me .. "Let the ones go that want to go - they mean nothing in God's great plan, they will only hinder you " ....
check out the link on "Living Without Crutches" !
https://www.joelosteen.com/Broadcast/StreamingVideo/Pages/GoBigVideo.aspx
.... And so .... with that being said .... I shall look forward to an EVEN BETTER 2009 !!!
WHEW !
** Just thought I would share what "one" said about me on FB.... since I need to grow up anyway ...
"Your are never ending. I didn't "forget you" here. I don't have to read your shit here, you blog here everyday how your freaking life sucks. So, I was giving you the benefit of the doubt, until you have to PUBLICLY announce how I erased you on my page. Gah, NO ONE CARES. Stop making a big deal out of stupid stuff. Be grown! My God, get a freaking life, Tammie. Maybe if you were to READ what I wrote you on Multiply you would understand why EVERYONE is sick of your shit.
Get out of your freaking self pitty hole, stop screwing up your family, get a freaking JOB, and stop relying on everyone around your to take care of your problems. Good bye. Your crazy!"
I NEVER use my words for HATE or in a meaning like that above, I TRY to be cordial to everyone, even if I don't agree with HOW they choose for thier lives to be. This stuff will NOT hurt me, like I said I am more than glad they are gone. I wish others would see thier TRUE selves.
Oh, I hope I don't get deleted....
ReplyDeleteOh no Anne, I am not the one "deleting".... I was deletED.
ReplyDeleteI would never delete you (a real friend) anyway ... :O)
So ya got up and made it to church today..that's good!
ReplyDeleteThat AND Joel Osteen ! :O) Ahhhhh, I just LUV him !!!
ReplyDeleteAnd usually when "I" go to deleting someone, I feel that I owe some sort of an explanation .. I try not to just delete .. unless the person is never around. I will try to send a PM or talk about it somehow first ... I feel that other wise it just speaks multitudes about your real character as a friend to anyone. I try to think that I would want to treat others as I would want to be treated. But then, that IS JUST ME .....
ReplyDeleteSorry you have been having a rough time lately on here. I hope 2009 is a better year for you. Sometimes people just find out they don't click, but you are right, there could at least be an explanation!
ReplyDeleteWay to go on making it to church. I didnt do so well with that...i was soo tired from last night!
ReplyDeleteSorry about the deleting stuff...ugh.
Oh never be sorry, it is totally for the best ! :O)
ReplyDeletelmao, doesnt it just crack you up how stupid people can be here
ReplyDeleteIs this middle school again? lol
ReplyDeleteDitto This!
ReplyDeleteMove on - good attitude :)
Appearantly... check this one out.
ReplyDelete"""Your are never ending. I didn't "forget you". I don't have to read your shit, you don't blog here everyday how your freaking life sucks. So, I was giving you the benefit of the doubt, until you have to PUBLICLY announce how I erased you on my page. Gah, NO ONE CARES. Stop making a big deal out of stupid stuff. Be grown! My God, get a freaking life, Tammie. Maybe if you were to READ what I wrote you on Multiply you would understand why EVERYONE is sick of your shit.
Get out of your freaking self pitty hole, stop screwing up your family, get a freaking JOB, and stop relying on everyone around your to take care of your problems. Good bye. Your crazy! """"
PS .. HAS ANYONE EVEN FREAKING NOTICED THAT JEN IS GONE ???
ReplyDeleteFOR THIS SAME REASON ?!!
SHHHHHEEEEESHHHH !!!
Just be who you are. If people don't like it, that's life, right!
ReplyDeleteSometimes people are just 'cleaning house' and deleting folks they don't visit often. They SHOULD give an explaination, but I suppose if they haven't been to your page ina bit maybe they figure you wouldn't notice? I'm just playing devil's advocate here. It does suck, but just move on. If they didn't want to be your friend then their loss I suppose right?
ReplyDeleteWell, I'm not deleting you. I enjoy reading your blogs and love the comments you leave on mine! Be yourself. I always say, this is me....if someone doesn't like me, well, they have the option to not read what I write. :)
ReplyDeleteIt sounds like some people are still in grade school....but according to them you need to grow up lol
ReplyDeleteTotally ! :O)
ReplyDeleteAnd it was more than that - but this blog is the last I will ever speak of it, I am over it.
Chali: THANK YOU !
Stormie : HA HA HA HA HA !
My thoughts exactly!
ReplyDeleteThey wanna leave let them. No one needs fake ass friends. Hope you're having a good night!
ReplyDeleteyeah, a great big "whatever" to whoever wrote that.
ReplyDeleteGlad you made it to church. I need to send you a link to the sermon from yesterday at our church...... i thought of you the whole time. I think you could really benefit from hearing it! I don't think it'll be up yet, though. Maybe tomorrow.
Yeah on making it to church and it's so good to see your not bugged by the people that deleted! You go girl for looking to the positive!! I hope your new week will be super! Hugs
ReplyDeleteDon't fret the deletions...life goes on!
ReplyDeleteWhy worry about what you write...it's YOUR blog! If they don't like it, or want to read it, that's their choice! You've got plenty of other people who do.
No one gets along with everyone. Your bound to disagree on something or rub someone the wrong way. Life goes on.
ReplyDeleteTammie you just be yourself! You are such a good person and although I've only been on your page a short time, I do know that you are a very loving person who loves her children and is such a great mom. You are a woman of faith and I know that you always make my day when you stop by. ((((Hugs))))
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