Can somebody PLEEEEEEEEEEASE tell me what more God wants from me ??? What am I doing that I keep having to live like this ? Is my father right about the only place I was meant to live was a trailer park ?
Got this paper from the court house a little while ago .... It SAYS we lost the van.
I requested the court date to begin with to try to avoid this problem, to get our voice heard... but according to "the paper" I was sent it says I was supposed to enter a written "ANSWER", by a certain date.
A what ? AN answer ? An answer to WHAT ????
How the hec am I supposed to KNOW this ? Should I be psychic ?
So all it says to me is that the little guy don't matter, that BIG people always get what they want - and that NO ONE GIVES a shit ! Hey. lets just make up rules as we go - eh ? Lets step all over people and we're big bad lawyers and KNOW you aint got a pot to piss in, so HA HA HA ! I AM SOOO TIRED OF BEING STEPPED ON !
Wanna know WHY I didn't vote ? THERE YA GO ! people - rules, laws, politics.. I hate it all ! LIARS ! LIARS ! LIARS !
All this time since our ID theft, NO ONE CARES ! Lose your house, your car, your everything and who the hell cares.
HOW am I supposed to make it living out in the boonies with winter coming and 5 kids with NO CAR ????
OOOOh this promises to be A WONDERFUL HOLIDAY SEASON LET me tell you !
Adam does not know this all yet, I have hid the paper. I am afraid to show it to him. He'll blow up. I don't know if I should or not or If I should even bother going to court now.
UGH... WHAT MORE DOES GOD WANT ?? HOW MUCH MORE DO I HAVE TO TAKE ??
I just don't get it anymore. I think I have reached my limit with everything.
* (and appearantly my husband has taken on an alias of our last street name.. it says AKA... Adam Glider... FUNNNNNNY.) IDIOTS !
** Oh upon opening my OTHER mail, I found a bill for attorneys fees for THIS Court date. FOR 780.00 !!!! They havent stated a time of pick up of the van or whatever you call it, so I guess I will just find that out.
*** Oh, and this isn't about losing the van because of our NOT being able to maintain insurance , I mean we knew it was going to happen sooner or later ....it is about HOW they have treated us and how disappointed I am with it all.
I would go to court and tell them that you never knew you had to answer by any sort of date. And you didn't know what you were supposed to answer. YOU HAVE TO FIGHT BACK somehow.. you are only going to keep getting stepped on if you take it lying down.. I know that's harsh, but it's reality in this day and age..
ReplyDeleteI gotta believe there have to be some assistance programs for people in your situation. What about churches helping out.. I know that I've seen things where people can donate old cars for people through a church.. is there something like that there? Have you looked into it?
DON'T EVER USE WELLS FARGO PEOPLE !
ReplyDeleteDON'T EVER USE WELLS FARGO PEOPLE !
ReplyDeleteWe have checked into it some, but we make too much. It is for low income which we are not considered to be in by a mere few dollars.
ReplyDeleteOther than that I have no idea what to do. there are not programs out there for people who've had thier life savings stolen and lost everything .. we hear oh well that is your fault.
I agree; I think should should go to court and just see what happens.
ReplyDeleteYou can't just NOT go. And you for sure can't hide it from your husband. You have to talk to him, and figure out an answer TOGETHER.
ReplyDeleteI know for a simple fact that there ARE programs around you that help you with a car if you are in need. I believe it is a church. I will double check. My girlfriend went through them. It is not a brand new car. But, WHO CARES. It is a car, and it is reliable.
SIGH .... you don't know my hubby. :O(
ReplyDeleteHe has extreme anger issues sometimes.
and I could ccare less if it is new, just that it gets me where I am going and don't have things falling off. Been there before. Not fun.
Hug's
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry you are going through all of this. Are you supposed to pay the $780 lawyers fees? I'd go to court to find out more.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry you are going through all of this. I suppose I would be sure to go to court anyway so you can have your say. They don't know what has happened to you if you don't go and tell them.
ReplyDeleteAnd be sure to invollve your hubby on the news of this happening; he may be mad about it, but imagine how much MORE angry he will be whenm he wakes up one morning and the van is gone and you knew it was gonna happen and didn't tell him. That would be worse.
Look into the car assistance programs anyway. Sometimes they are leanient about you making a "couple extra bucks" if you really truely are in need.
Good luck to you!
He knows about it, and he knows about court, just not the letter. I will tell him after dinner or it will seriously ruin the evening. I knew I had to tell him before tommorrow anyway, I just dreaded having to do it. He won't pissed at me, but he will at them.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry you lost the van, that's crazy they're doing that. My car company (wells fargo) discovered we were uninsured and all they did was tack on insurance themselves to our car payment. We once were sued by a phone company, saying we owed a $11,000 phone bill, so we went to the court, submitted an answer and they dropped the suit, it was an outrageous claim.
ReplyDeleteYou need to go to court, and you need to let them know that you aren't getting the paperwork or whatever that said that you had to answer to something...and I'd tell whoever is charging you court fees that outrageous that they don't get the money if they can't even keep you informed. That's rotten.
ReplyDeleteI don't know what else to say......*hugs*
SEEEE ! you got WF too ! They DID that too us BUT WE HADDDDDDDD the friggin insurance, so we took them to court and won ! but this is the 2nd time and they said we did it habitually and they would repo the van if we couldn;t afford the insurance and refused to have thiers. (which raised our payments btw 250 dollars) so that is what is happening.
ReplyDeleteand WHAT is an ANSWER ? an ANSWER to what ???????
I agree...cant hurt.
ReplyDeleteIm sorry that things are this bad for you guys. My heart breaks for your situation.
We decided to go, and I went ahead and told Adam.... we disagree with all of this going on, but it says the judgement is on our credit and the only way to get it removed is to pay it and some docket fee ? I never even heard about whatever an answer is, I still have no idea.
ReplyDeleteAdam says they will take the money out of our taxes because it is a judgement.
Idk what to say.... ((hugs))
ReplyDeleteThat's ok :O) Hugs are good too !
ReplyDeleteI am glad you are going Tammie! Ugh on all of this!!! I am so sorry!!! Please try other agency because I know they go by different income at all of them. You can take your denied letter from FIA and go to the other ones.It just annoys me the people that sit on ther butts and abuse the system get help but people that work and try to make a life for there families can't get it. I will be praying hard for you all! I wish I was rich and I'd make it all go away for you. I know that doesn't do much for you but it sure breaks my heart to see you go through all of this. I can relate to a lot and know how hard it can be with so much and not sure what is going to happen!!!. BIG HUGE HUGS to you!!!!
ReplyDeleteAwww, thank you Sheri.. that means alot.
ReplyDeleteI will keep trying, I havent given up just yet, but it is in the mean time that will suck.
I agree totally with what you said about getting help .... I see so many to do and can, but we can't. It drives me nutty.
I'm so sorry you are getting hit with everything at once. I know how hard it is to try to make ends meet and just feel like you are being slapped down farther for trying.
ReplyDeleteThe only way to go from here is up! Right? There cant be much more.
You have to keep going Tammie..your family and friends love you!((HUGS)) Luv Ya Gf!
I'm really sorry! I know it's hard, but try to keep up hope and keep going!
ReplyDeleteI am soo sorry to hear that Tammie! But I would Definitely GO to Court and try and at least see what happens. Maybe they can work out something! I Hope anyways!!!! Good Luck! You're in my thoughts and Prayers!! Luv ya girl! TC!
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ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry..
ReplyDeleteTo their lawsuit. It's basically a written statement saying why you think you shouldn't be getting sued for whatever their trying to sue you for.
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