Thank you all SOOOO,soooo very much for all your support today.. You have NO idea how much it means to me. I do want to appologize though - for the tyrade ... I meant to blog as my outlet .... as - um, I usually do ... lol. So the result of HER passing through wasn't meant to get ya'll involved.
I am kinda glad she read it though, weird huh ? But I just couldn't let her get "away" with what she was saying about me. She is out of my life forever now and gone baby gone ....quite actually some of the things she was saying made me laugh ... so hey, that is a good thing ! So I am STILL an open book, ya'll know ME anyway ... right ? So - ya'll got to go along for a ride huh ?
This is a hard night tho, don't get me wrong.. I have cried more than I thought possible, but I am pretty firm in believeing things happen for a reason... so I am NOT going to get depressed and act all crazy... I am fine and things will be alright if not better for it.
Thank you all so much again - it means more to me than ya'll will ever know.
I LOVE YOU (oops, wait should I say that ?)
TAMMIE :o)
Tammie, I'm just really sorry that this is going on in your life...nobody deserves this to happen to them. I hope things will be a little clearer when the dust settles.
ReplyDeleteLove you too, girl!
ReplyDeleteHang in there. Take some time to think things through. Try hard to get yourself and Adam into counseling or something.
You guys need to try and get through this with as much maturity as possible, for your kids' sake. What he did was beyond wrong, and possibly the deal breaker for your marriage---but now it's time to try and think with as clear a head as you can.
I'm so sorry. I wish I lived closer. I how I wish!
Love ya to girl....I am so sorry....HUGS for you
ReplyDeleteGlad that you checked back in Tammie!
ReplyDeleteBig Hugs Girl ~ Get some rest and try to clear your head to think straight. Don't make any fast decisions on anything tonight. We are all hear for you, you know that.
ReplyDeleteWE LUV U 2!!
ReplyDeleteLove ya too girlie!
ReplyDeleteIm glad we could be there for you. i know this evening was pretty tough for you. I guess its good that she got all that out so maybe now she'll just leave you be...
Take some time, get some rest so you can put everything into focus. Im sure your kiddos are confused and hurt too so take special care (as I know you will).
Im here for you if you need me...
I'm really sorry for everything that happened to you earlier. And I just want you to know that I support you... even though I didnt have much to say during the whole thing. I figured it was my place to stay out of it. If you need to talk about anything, feel free to PM me!!! <3 <3 <3
ReplyDeleteI am sorry you are going through all of that. I just baked a dozen cookies...you should try it...eat a dozen and your stomach hurts bad enough that nothing else bothers you...
ReplyDeleteNo, really, hang in there and lean on your friends when you need to. You are a strong woman and can make it through anything!
I'm sorry for all that you're going through. I've been there and done that and I know it's not easy... be it an actual physical relationship or an internet one, it's never easy. You are in my thoughts and prayers tonight and I hope that everything works out as it should. Love ya babe! Nite!
ReplyDeleteI hope that whatever the results of what happened, is truly for the best. If it means working things out, good. If it means that he needs to hit the road, than so be it. Just trust that the right outcome will occur. :)
ReplyDeleteHug's
ReplyDeleteHang in there. ;)
ReplyDeleteI am soooo sorry about everything Tammie! I just got caught up w/what all's been going on...I can't believe it! I don't even know what to say! I totally agree w/everything u said! u have vevery right to be angry! I'll be thinking of you alot! I really hope things can work out! Lots of love and hugs!
ReplyDeleteHugs to you Tammie! I am so sorry with everything your going through right now! Know I am praying for you and to listen to the words Windi wrote she has some great advice!!! Hugs your way!! Thinking of you!!
ReplyDeleteOh Tammie, I'm sooo sorry this happened to you. I just read your other blog and all the comments left..crapola, what a farkin' mess!
ReplyDeleteI hope you find some inner peace. I'm praying for you, thinking about you, and don't forget, you aren't the only one who has ever been in this spot. If you need anything, let me know.
Just remember one thing: The most important thing in this world is your happiness. Do what YOU need to do. If you aren't happy, then you can't provide it for your kids. You and them are the one's you should be concerned with. I hope it all works out for you, no matter what choice you make with it. Don't do anything right away; take the time to work all of it out.
(((hugs))))
Well, I'm glad we were (and are) here for you to vent. This is not fun stuff. HUG! I'm here if you ever want to PM or anything!!
ReplyDeleteTammie, you deserve so much better and I'm glad you've been able to trust all of us with the goingsons in your life. We're here for you if you if you need us.
ReplyDeleteHUGS to you.
ReplyDeleteI think I'm behind in my reading. I've been away for a month so I'll have to catch up.
ReplyDeleteSorry to hear this Tammie. Your in my thoughts and prayers. Hang in there and take things at your own pace.
ReplyDeleteStay strong and know that we are here for you!
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