Ok,I have an appointment here in a bit and since my kids appearantly don't want to move thier arses to get out the door, I will jot this down quick.
I just wanna say - I am so tired of all this blog drama. I was a part of some once and I hated it. While I feel badly for the person(S) going through some of it in some ways - and in all ways with the other - I won't be commenting about it anymore. I don't want to add to it other than it is rediculous and a very big waste of my time. If any of you on my friends list is out there looking for that ...... I think it is time that you move on - because that is NOT what I am here for.
Initially I came here (360) for a journal or diary of sorts ... and although I had never kept one in the past I found that it became a great outlet for me. Once I came to Multiply I found that it REALLY was a great way for me to vent and make reallly great friends while in the process.
I want to keep my page open, because that is how I met most of all my bestest friends here, but some things are going to change for those who aren't on my friends list, but I am not sorry about that. I have also deleted a few people or will be deleting the people I no longer hear from or that I haven't heard from in like forever. I also will no longer accept invites unless I have seen you around on my friends pages and are actually "vouched" for or I actually know you. I ams orry if some of you may not understand this, but it is something that I have to do. It is not anything personal.
I just hate all this drama and don't want to be in the middle of some of it ... so you won't see me there. I do care, but it is ya'lls buisness and I am not going to add to it or fuel the fire - even though it angers me.
I LUV my dearest friends here bunches !!! I hope ya'll know that ! You all have made my life so much better !
But it is sad that some people can't be trusted and others want to just play games.
I hope that you can understand and hope y'all have a great day !
(Well, my kiddo's FINALLY got in gear so that I can get out the door !!! Dang bums !!)
TAMMIE :o)
This kind of vigilance seems to be a necessary evil.
ReplyDeleteGood luck at your appointment.
Hope the appt goes well.
ReplyDeleteI know what you mean tho. Drama on here too just crazy. We all have so much going on in our day to day lives anyway!
Best thing to do is just not talk about it, I guess.
ReplyDeleteI think maybe all of us should just have a big "ole" group hug and then agree to just drop the whole thing, starting RIGHT NOW! :)~
Group hug
ReplyDeleteI TOTALLLLLLLY couldn't agree MORE !
ReplyDeleteOk, I gotta run ... lol.
ReplyDeleteHope your appointment goes good Tammie! Hugs to you!!! Talk to you soon!!
ReplyDeleteHUG!
ReplyDeleteIf this is about my comment back to you on my page, it was meant as kind of a way to finally drop it all, k? I wasn't trying to be mean! I'm just really tired of hearing this and hearing that. It's all kinda hard for me!
I so hate doctor's appointments. Even if they are just for a routine check up. The whole environment just makes my body crunch up!
ReplyDeleteOne thing about all the craziness is, even after the people who start it don't care anymore, those who the crap was aimed at are affected long after. It sucks, it's like a poison. It just keeps spreading, and you feel all icky inside. If I speak up, apparently, I am the bad guy, if I stay out of it, I am condoning it. It's a rock and a hard place, I tell ya. This is supposed to be my happy place, ya know!?
WHAT?
ReplyDeleteYou mean I can't find drama here?
Go to TNT DJ, they know drama. (or whatever cable channel has that tagline)
ReplyDeleteI was gonna type that BUT I didn't know who would be geek enough to get the reference.
ReplyDeleteI guess that I fulfill that requirement...
ReplyDeleteLOL!
ReplyDeleteNow I got that L&O chung chung in my head! AH!
ReplyDeleteHa! I am watching Law and Order on TNT right this very minute!
ReplyDeleteGroup hug!!
ReplyDeleteMy wife is addicted to that show....EVEN if she's seen the episode one million times! I like it too but....Sheesh!
ReplyDelete(((((HUGS)))))))))) Tammie :) hope your appointment goes well hon,
ReplyDeletewill talk to you later on girl.
Not cutting me are you ;;(. I got a message from a chick yesterday that she was taking me off her buddy list. I was like WTH? I don't know what's up with the drama on Multiply, I stay in my little bubble and try not to bother anyone. Sounds to me like the trouble makers need to go on the block list and call it a day though.
ReplyDeleteOHHHH Yes, I know this one well. lol.
ReplyDeleteI also know about being a rock in a hard place too !
HA HA - your guys' comments crack me up !
I hope the drama stops whatever it is about.... I mind my own business here... I have learned to stay clear of drama.. ttyl
ReplyDeleteI hate drama. I'm not in high school anymore....I work at one and it's sad watching the kids going through it.
ReplyDeleteI'm here to form lasting friendships....this is my santuary....a place where I don't feel judge and I can say what I am feeling.
YES !!! TOTALLY!
ReplyDeleteI have been thinking about this blog all day, and I just want to make a public apology of sorts:
ReplyDeleteI know you must feel terribly in the middle of some of the stupidity going on around here. I feel terrible about that, and I hope you don't think I am trying to drag you into anything.
I have tried to make a point, after the drama between us, to not get you involved in anything like that again, just as you have paid me the courtesy of not talking about a certain person on my list, to me.
Also, isn't it funny (in a really weird way) that we became BETTER friends AFTER the excrement hit the motorized air circulation device, between us?
Anyweasel, just wanted you to know, that I KNOW that you must be going crazy right now, being pulled from both sides.
Awww.. Rikki - you know I LUV ya girl... I don't think you need to appologize tho - I needed to get stuff off my mind so maybe I should have thought about it first.
ReplyDeleteNo biggie - I am all ok with it now - I just don't want to deal with this stuff any of the time - ya know ?!
For sure!
ReplyDeleteI just don't want you thinking that I don't know what you are going through. =(
Drama is poison. We can do our best to stay out of it, but sometimes no matter what happens, we do get sucked in a little. I am sorry you are having a tough time right now. I hope things get better in that department. Hope your dr. appt goes well! Take care :-)
ReplyDeleteOOPs sorry I wasnt around enough and got deleted. FOr some reason yuor posts never showed in my inbox but now that you deleted me they do.
ReplyDeleteI couldn't agree MORE !!!!!
ReplyDeleteoh yea.... and I am a dope - I just now got the TNT - They got Drama thing ... LOL !!!
Har har - I know ... don't say it !!! LOL !
Did i miss something else?
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