TRUTH ...

Well Hello everyone, until a few minutes ago I really had no idea what I was going to write about, Maybe my day or the piddly things that go on here ... then a read a friends blog and it moved me to write about the same subject. That subject being "Be Fruitful and Multiply?"

So ... please take a minute and look in my friends space under Sabrina, read her blog and you will know EXACTLY how I feel about my life now.



Now, if you have read her blog, you do know how I feel. Sure, Adam and I have had our FAIR share of ups and downs ... duh, no one is perfect, but we see nothing wrong and intend to try. We are both saved christians intending to rid our home of all worldly evil, homeschool our kids and make sure that negativity is not a part of our lives. I have heard it said that being a stay at home mother is lazy and have even been called that to my face from my neighbour with further response that I could have more "things" that I wanted if I had a full time job and had my kids in daycare .... well let me tell you ... I am one woman that HAS what I want ... material posessions mean nothing to me ... I HAVE a job, and that is staying at home with my children, being thier mother instead of paying someone else to do it ! I am also a wife to my husband, you know I cook meals and wash laundry, whatever it may be ... It IS my job ! We do not intend to have someone else raise the children that we had,and if we wanted to put them "away" in daycare, we wouldn't have had them ... We do not intend to let the world further more fill our childrens heads with the negative rubbish that goes around ... Maybe that is why the world IS the way it IS ... I refuse to care what other people think ... This IS MY job, a job the Lord gave to me !!!! OUR priorites are our children, not money, homes, cars, others etc. OUR kids come first ! Further more, we are planning to add to our family, that is right ! That IS what I said, 5 kids or how ever many the lord wants to bless us with IS what we want, we do not believe that it is wrong, immoral or unfair, "Where God guides, God provides"! PLEASE read Psalms 127 ... Has anyone ever heard of the Duggar family ?????? Duh ! No I do not believe in birth control and I have NEVER taken any, so with four kids I do not intend to start or intend on letting anyone tell me how to live my life ! If WE want to raise OUR kids to be honest, trustworty, compassionate, caring, kind christian children and you don't like it, then that is just tooooooooo bad !

Please understand though, that I do understand that this IS NOT the "LITTLE HOUSE" times, I do believe that women should stay at home, but there are circumstances that keep some from doing so and I do understand that, but if you are married, you should let it be the man's job to be the man and support the family. After all it is UP to us to make sure our children are raised properly, who will they go to when they are grown, not thier day care providers, thier parents ... So it IS up to you to make sure that they are safe, cared for and loved, hopefully raised in a positive environment free from all the horrible issues of the world. As you lie on your death bed, who will YOU think of ? Your children, your money, your house jewelry or cars ... who will love you ??? Your children, house, money jewelry or cars ???? Hmmmmm ... WHY has it become the "American Dream" to love all BUT our family and instead material possesions ? WHO says we have to have a bigger house, better - newer cars, boats ... Does your neighbour REALLLLLLY care ? Really now ?



So, It seems to me the world is taking "sides", whose "side" are you on ?????? I know whose I am on and where me and my family will go.

Thanks Sabrina for knowing pretty much how I feel, now I don't feel so alone.

I hope everyone has a great day, GOD BLESS !

TAMMIE